Online bullying of children: what warning signs parents should look out for and how to provide support

Cyberbullying is a form of bullying that occurs over the Internet using modern technologies. Unlike traditional conflicts, this phenomenon often goes unnoticed by adults, so it is important for parents to be attentive to signs that may indicate the aforementioned phenomenon and know how to react correctly.

Scientists from the National Police of Ukraine emphasize that the first signs of problems may appear through changes in the child’s behavior. For example, he may stop communicating with friends, classmates or relatives. Parents may also be alarmed by the child’s reluctance to attend school or other places where there are peers.

Another signal is noticeable changes in mood: the child may become more withdrawn, anxious, irritable or depressed. Other signs include a decrease in the time spent on the Internet, or even refusal to use gadgets.

Pay attention to the fact that the child may lose interest in favorite activities or hobbies. Physical symptoms such as headaches, stomachaches or trouble sleeping can indicate stress caused by online bullying.

If parents suspect that their child has been a victim of cyberbullying, the first thing to do is to support them. It is important to listen carefully to the child without judgment and create an atmosphere of safety and trust so that they can feel that they are not to blame for the situation.

The next step is to record evidence: take screenshots of messages, comments or other materials that confirm the facts of bullying. Then it is worth blocking the offender and contacting the administration of the platform or social network.

In cases of serious threats or systematic bullying, it is important to contact the management of the educational institution or law enforcement agencies. Use the help offered by the Educational Ombudsman Service or the free legal aid service.

Experts also emphasize that you should not punish a child by restricting access to the Internet or preventing them from using gadgets, as this can further worsen their condition. Instead, it is important to teach your child the basics of online safety, not sharing personal information, and being careful when communicating online.